Friday, October 22, 2010

What should i do after i knew the guy that i have crush with live with another women and he call her his gf.?

I have been met this guy for about 2 years. I saw him hang out at the bar with many different women. He always greets me and i just look at him , most of the time i just ignore him. Recently he asks me to hang out so many times and i just ignore him eventhougt i have little crush with him.He never give up. it has been 2 months he ask me and i just smile or sometimes i just say what but then he came to me and ask me do you know where i work i said i do not know till finally he told me where he work. I was in doubt but finally i say yes . We talk we text till finally we meet . He show me so much love explain to me why he like me and ask me why i never smile at him before ,i just said i do not know you, he care much cook me meal and so much things that he did just make me love him more till finally we sleep.First i was curios i found women stuff in his bathroom but then he told me he has 19 years old daughter and i think that was hers, but then another time he invite me to sleep over and i was shock to hear what he said, when i ask him at the first time to have protection he said i do not have it cause i do not have sex with girl, but then he told me that the girl who always hang out with him is his girl friend,then i ask him question, why u cheat on her and he said i do not say that it is cheating then i ask him how come you said not cheating and you call her your girl gf . I got confuse and i do not really understand what he said , i got really headache , i feel so bad having sex with him . I feel sorry to that lady because i know her but i just know that lady is his gf, after then he drunk and smoke weed. I am so stress out and want to get out .While he drunk he keep telling about his gf that she cook him indian food and ask me if i can cook that food i said i know how to cook food from my country and little bit america not india.Finally i ask him where is she now and he said out of town. I could not sleep at that time and he could not too.Other thing i was scare imagine she came home and cougth me spent nite there. I just feel like i wanna run away , and i lost my libido to him. I like him but i just do not want give people trouble.What should i do after i knew the guy that i have crush with live with another women and he call her his gf.?
Pay attention to your last sentence in your question. You do not want to give people trouble. You should also not want to give yourself trouble. You need to dump this guy. You are a wonderful person who should find a wonderful man. If he has a girlfriend and is seeing you, most likely he is seeing lots of women and therefore he's just not the guy for you. Find someone able to care for you alone not 40 women, not 2 women, whats the difference? You are not a prostitute so don't let him make you feel like one, and just quit seeing him and find respect for yourself. You are worth a lot more than a man like that. All women have had a guy like that in their lives and most of us are smart enough to find somebody else instead. You are worth it, remember that.What should i do after i knew the guy that i have crush with live with another women and he call her his gf.?
He's attached, so forget your crush and look elsewhere. Don't get involved in breaking up a relationship, it can get dangerous.
This guy sounds like trash. Stop speaking to him. You made a mistake, we all do, just move on. He is using you and he knows what he is doing.
don't hang out with him anymore. you'll just end up getting hurt.
he seems like a jerk.

you might be his plaything (no offence)



find out if he really has a girl friend and find out whats going on.

from there, decided what would be the best for you and him both as well as the gf.



if he really has a gf, leave im before your feelings develop into something more



if he doesn't, find out what kind of guy he REALLY is
It is never wise to interfere in the relationships of others. Now that you know he not only has a girlfriend, but that he lives with her, it is time to forgive yourself and tell him to get lost. Show the same respect for their relationship that you would want others to show for any you may have. The guy is a liar, a cheat, and shows no respect for his girlfriend...someone you are better off without. Spend more time with your other friends and doing things you enjoy. There are other more gentlemanly suitors.
You really need to bite the bullet and move on, no sense in worrying about things that will lead nowhere.
from experience run. if u don't ull wind up being hurt and you'll b the other girl.whats toi say he wouldn't do the same thing to u ? when i was young dumb i fell for a married man i really didn't know better than 2 believe him when he said he didn't love her and that they were just staying in the same house until divorce. As i grew older i married another cheater. i caught him and told her that the way she was going choosing to believe a guy like him would somehow someway someday hurt someone like she was hurting me like i had hurt someone once.so be careful what goes around comes around and if u r lucky enough yull learn from ur mistakes sometimes some of us learn the hahard-way RUN
One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying your sex drive. If your on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.



One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn't the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don't cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it's the female version of viagra. I had to find out.



I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don't get multiple orgasms but I've had plenty since being on these herbs. It's seriously like the best vibrator ride you've ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don't even take them because the urge is just too strong.



Don't try out single herbs because they don't do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I've tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I'm on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement dot com . Make sure you get the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don't work for you, you can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won't have any problems. Also if your on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn't want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.



Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.

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